Tuesday, 6 October 2015

Relationships♥ | Long distance (possible NSFW)

Long distance relationships are tough, especially when it comes to sex. 
Sometimes, you want something a lil' more exhilarating than some dodgy sexting. 

Or Skype Boggle. Don't ask.


If you find that you're starting to feel rusty when it come to indulging in *ahem* a more sensual online past-time, then here are some things you can try out.

  • Get a damn webcam
Try out long role-playing sessions, creative strip games or just have a good ol' spontaneous masturbation session. 
  • Write erotica 
Detail it as much as possible. Put in stuff that the two of you want to try out, but don't quite have the guts to do just yet (sex in public, threesome, a new position, just to name a few). Detail the scene, the atmosphere, your partners mood and your mood, how you both look, how you react. Don't be shy.

A good tip for the dominant/submissive types out there are mandatory instructions that he/she must follow before reading. 

  • Consider an open-relationship
  1. How secure are you within your relationship? 
  2. Can you handle the thought of your boyfriend or girlfriend getting intimate with someone else? 
  3. Are you open and honest and great at communicating with your partner? 
If you can tick off all three of the above, then super-duper! 

Open relationships can bring people closer together, because they quickly hash out all the feelings of jealousy that most people experience in a relationship.


But if you're going to stay up all night and worry constantly if she/he's sleeping with someone else tonight, well, enough said...

DO NOT PURSUE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP IF ONE OF YOU REFUSES TO GO THROUGH WITH IT.
ONLY DO THIS IF YOU ARE BOTH IN FULL AGREEMENT. 

  • Utilize futuristic technology!
There are app controlled, long distance, interactive sex toy available. 
There's a whole wikipedia article on teledildonics. Yes, that is a word.

But seriously, think of all the possibilities.



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